It was Friday night in Costa Rica - the night before we were to leave to return to our home country. With sweet memories of our previous visit with our friends on a similar Friday night a year before, we eagerly gave up sleep to close our time. We knew that this would be a Spirit-driven evening filled with singing, testimony, eating, and just being together with friends.
The activities were not different from the activities we do when we get together here at home. But there was a different sense of time. Here in our U.S. church, we had a starting time, a schedule of how long each part of the event would last and a fairly firm ending time. At home, we sense in people a stronger commitment to time and less commitment to relationships. But in Cost Rica, we felt a much stronger sense of focus on relationships between people, one to another and less commitment to time. In the Costa Rica evening gathering, there was no set ending time. There was also no expectation that everyone would arrive or not leave by a certain time.
You may ask, “Which is better?” I do not know. The point is that the cultures are different. But individual people are less different than the average cultural norm. In Costa Rica, some of our friends were people at the gathering who were on time and were more committed to moving the event along. On the other hand, here at home we have friends who are more casual about starting and ending time. As I pointed out in the last post, people are not an average national culture. People are individuals and God’s unique creation.





