Column by Robyn Honeycut

Back to Table of Contents | Back to Main Index Previous Columns | Send mail to The Voice Practice love despite tragedy The day of Adam Smouse's accident was one of those days when I wanted to rewind time and begin again--not for my sake but for Adam's. By now, most of MBC knows the details of his accident. Shortly after Adam was brought out of surgery, we were allowed into the ICU to see him, hold his hands and pray. I expected grief but found hope as I looked into the faces of his family and friends. Adam's dear parents were ministering to each of his visitors and confidently talking about his recovery. From the moment I learned of his crash, I have not stopped thanking God for sparing his life. Our friend is still with us. As horrible as the sit-uation is, we know the "what might have been" scenario is much worse. Someone else could fill Adam's position at Red Robin. Evangel Baptist could find other worship leaders to minister. But no one could ever replace the relationships his family and friends have with him. There is no substitute for the unique and wonderful person that Adam is. Our experiences differ, but no one is exempt from problems. Without apology, Jesus tells us we will have troubles in this world. As if making a joke, he says, "I tell you this so you will have peace," John 16:33. Looking at Adam's swollen, misshapen face was not peaceful. No matter how we Christianize his situation, the fact remains that he will have a long road to recovery. When trials occur, we can choose from many different coping strategies. One of the ways Jesus cares for us is through the love we show each other. The ICU waiting room was full of Adam's family and friends. They shed tears, exchanged stories and ran errands for the Smouses. Later in the day, Adam was able to communicate. He signed "I love you" with hand motions and wrote pages of notes, pouring out his love to his family and friends. His animated communication made everyone smile. We don't welcome tribulation. But when it comes, our response may be the most significant communication we have with a world that doesn't know God. Continue to pray for Adam and for his family. Back to Table of Contents | Back to Main Index Previous Columns | Top Of Page Send mail to The Voice| Journalism department website © 2003 The Voice. No part of this publication may be reproduced in written or electronic form without prior written consent from the journalism adviser of Multnomah Bible College. All rights reserved.